Rules of engagement.

Step One: Come to an agreement on marriage.

Step Two: Decide on the rules of engagement (no pun intended).

Mostly the rules as discussed to this point are about the wedding.

Rule One (as dictated by Him): No poofy white dress.

Rule Two (as dictated by Her): No sneakers with suits.

There are more. Most of his revolve around the idea that this wedding needs as little fuss as possible, and that I'm not allowed to turn into a Bridezilla. Most of mine revolve around the idea that he has to get over his 'wacky' tendancies (see Rule Two) and have an 'adult' experience. We haven't come to massive blows yet, but I think if he continues talking about kilts and getting an uncle/cousin/friend to take a course and become a celebrant to marry us it may be just around the corner... and once he realises I'm already 'researching' options on how/when/where it's a certainty.